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Is Everything Split 50/50 in a Divorce in North Carolina?

Is Everything Split 50/50 in a Divorce in North Carolina?

Even when a divorce is relatively amicable, property division can still be contentious. There are complex rules governing what counts as marital property, what counts as separate property, and how it all gets divided. While the division of property is supposed to be “equitable,” you and your spouse may disagree on what is equitable or fair.

On top of that, the rules can be drastically different depending on where you live. Each state has its own rules about how marital assets should be divided. While some states strictly split assets 50/50 in all cases, others (including North Carolina) do not.

In this blog post, we’ll briefly discuss the two main systems of property division used in the United States—and discuss what is used in North Carolina.

Community Property States vs. Equitable Division States

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Although each state has its own specific set of rules about dividing property, they generally fall into one of two broad categories:

Nine states, located primarily in the western and southwestern United States, observe community property laws. In a community property state, all marital assets and debts are split 50/50 in the divorce. This group of states includes California, Texas, Washington, Idaho, Nevada, Arizona, New Mexico, Louisiana, and Wisconsin.

The remaining states, including North Carolina, follow the law of equitable division, also known as equitable distribution. In an equitable distribution state, marital assets are to be divided “equitably” or fairly. What is equitable or fair is generally in the discretion of the judge.

One state, Alaska, generally follows equitable distribution but also allows couples to “opt in” to a community property arrangement before or during the marriage (but not once the divorce process has begun).

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Separate Property vs. Marital Property

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Before we go further, it’s important to clarify what we mean by “everything” when we ask if everything is split 50/50 after a divorce. “Everything” in this case refers to marital property.

But what exactly is “marital property”? In general, marital property refers to any assets acquired during the course of your marriage—income, property, debts, investment accounts, pension and retirement benefits, etc. It does not matter whose name the asset is in, and they are not required to be in joint names. These are the assets that are to be divided during the divorce process—50/50 in community property states, or “fairly” in equitable distribution states.

By contrast, separate property refers to assets that one spouse owned before the marriage, or gifts or inheritances given specifically to one spouse and not the other during the marriage. These do not get divided.

RELATED: What Does Marital Property Mean in Property Division Cases?

However, in practice the line isn’t always quite so clear. For example, in North Carolina, all assets owned by a party on the date of separation are considered marital property by default (the “presumption” of marital property). If one spouse contends that certain assets should be considered separate property, that spouse must have evidence to overcome the presumption. Furthermore, assets that begin as separate property can become joint property if they are mixed with marital assets during the marriage.

This aspect of the law is extremely complicated, so it’s always wise to consult with an experienced property division attorney. If you’d like more information on how separate assets can become marital property, we cover this in much greater detail in a recent blog post.

RELATED: How Does Separate Property Become Marital Property?

Equal and Equitable Are Not (Necessarily) the Same Thing

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In the context of property division, “equal” and “equitable” have very different meanings. Equal simply means both sides get the same amount. Equitable means that the division is fair for both sides.

Of course, sometimes a 50/50 split really is the fairest approach, and that’s exactly what a judge will decide. In fact, North Carolina state law instructs that marital property and divisible property should be divided equally according to their net value, “unless the court determines that an equal division is not equitable.”

But as you can imagine, there are many relevant factors that could shift the balance from strict 50/50 when it comes time to divide property equitably. Here are a few examples of what a court might consider:

  • Duration of the marriage. Couples that have been married a long time, naturally, tend to accumulate a lot of joint property, and division typically becomes more complicated. By contrast, relatively short marriages typically have much less property acquired during the marriage.
  • Child custody. If one spouse will be the primary caregiver for the couple’s children, they might receive the family home and a proportionally greater share of the assets to provide for their care.
  • Future financial needs and earning potential. For example, say that one spouse is a high wage earner, while the other is unable to work due to chronic health issues or disability. A court may divide the property in favor of the spouse with fewer resources and greater needs.
  • Contribution to career advancement. Say one spouse paid to help the other get an advanced degree—or, alternatively, quit working and stayed home to allow their spouse more time to devote to their own professional opportunities. These scenarios might lead to a more unequal distribution being considered “fair.”
  • Tax considerations. If a certain division of property would pose unequal tax burdens on the parties, they may also be given a greater share of assets as compensation.

These are not the only examples. North Carolina law allows for a judge to consider several factors that the court shall take into consideration if one party requests an unequal division, but also allows for “any other factor which the court finds to be just and proper” to be considered as well. This gives the judge a wide degree of subjective authority when it comes distributing assets “equitably.”

How a Divorce Attorney Can Help

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If this all seems complicated, that’s because it is. Every marriage is unique, and determining what’s “fair” is much more difficult than simply figuring out what’s “equal.”

Because what is equitable can be subjective, and there are often few easy answers, it’s normal for divorcing couples to strongly disagree about how to divide their assets—even when both sides act in good faith and aren’t actively trying to take advantage of one another. When spouses can’t agree between themselves, the matter must be resolved in court.

A divorce attorney can be a huge benefit as you and your spouse go separate ways—even if your divorce is (or at least begins as) an amicable one. An experienced lawyer will know the law, know the local courts, know how to distinguish between marital and separate property (and obtain the evidence needed to document and prove that certain assets should be considered separate), and how to accurately calculate the value the property to be divided.

Further, divorce is almost always stressful and painful even when both parties agree it’s for the best. Having an attorney handle this delicate, complicated legal work often means a faster resolution and less drama between separating spouses. You can focus on building your future life and, ideally, maintain a better relationship with your ex-spouse (especially if children are involved) while your attorney handles the legal work.

And the unfortunate reality is arguments over how the property will be divided can, and often do, lead to bitterness even in divorces that start out amicably. If your ex-spouse starts acting in bad faith or trying to get more than their fair share, a divorce attorney can help you protect your legal rights and work toward the quick, fair resolution that’s ultimately in the best interests of everyone concerned.

Myers Law Firm: Honest, Ethical, and Effective Representation

If you’re looking for an honest, compassionate, and dedicated legal team to help you resolve your property division issues after a divorce in Charlotte or Mecklenburg County, contact Myers Law Firm today for a free consultation.

Our attorneys have extensive experience handling every aspect of the property distribution process, as well as all family law matters related to divorce, separation, child custody, and child and spousal support. We are here to help you understand your options and protect your rights during stressful circumstances like this. 

To request your free consultation with Myers Law Firm, simply call 1-888-376-ATTY (2889) or complete our online contact form.


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Contributory Negligence

“Contributory negligence” is one of those legal terms that tends to make a non-lawyer’s eyes glaze over. But despite its obscure-sounding name, contributory negligence is a legal concept that has an enormous impact on personal injury cases in North Carolina (and a few other states), which is why you need to understand what it means if you’ve been injured. 

While injured individuals can still get some compensation from personal injury claims even if they are partly or even mostly at fault in some states, this is (with a few exceptions) generally not the case in North Carolina. Our state’s strict contributory negligence rule, unfortunately, means that an entire claim could be wiped out far more easily than most other states, thereby leaving claimants with no way to recover compensation for their serious injuries.

In this blog post, we’ll talk about what contributory negligence means, why it’s so important, and how you can protect yourself.

What Is Negligence?

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To understand what contributory negligence means, we should start out by defining the term “negligence,” an important concept in the world of personal injury law. The outcome of every personal injury lawsuit hinges on the idea of negligence and whether someone acted in a negligent manner. 

Of course, you probably know what the word “negligent” means in an everyday sense if you’re reading this. The legal definition of negligence isn’t all that different from the everyday definition of the word — it’s just a little more complicated (as most things involving the law tend to be). 

Under the law, negligence is a failure to behave with the reasonable level of care that an ordinarily prudent person would exercise under the same or similar circumstances. In other words, if a person finds themselves involved in a personal injury lawsuit, the jury must essentially answer two questions to determine if the person was negligent: 

  • What would a typical, reasonable person have done to act in a safe manner? 
  • Did the defendant fail to act in a safe manner? 

In order to successfully recover compensation in a negligence claim—say, after a car accident, slip and fall, or other personal injury incident—a plaintiff must show that:

  • The person who caused their injury had a duty to exercise reasonable care.
  • They failed to do so—and thus acted negligently.
  • Such failure caused (directly or indirectly) injury to the plaintiff.

Although this sounds simple on paper, it’s not always straightforward to decide which actions constitute negligence. Everyone has their own reasons and motivations for their actions, and there is no magic handbook that tells us exactly what constitutes “reasonable” behavior in every situation. Instead, it’s up to judges and juries to decide what actions are reasonable in a specific circumstance. 

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Contributory Negligence Versus Comparative Negligence 

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Now that we know what negligence means in a legal sense, let’s talk about the “contributory” part. There are two options for how courts proceed once they determine who is at fault for an accident or injury in a personal injury lawsuit. 

With comparative fault, the plaintiff (the injured victim in a personal injury case) can receive compensation from a lawsuit based on what percent the defendant was at fault. In other words, if the defendant was 50 percent responsible for the plaintiff’s injuries, then the plaintiff can recover up to 50 percent of the total damages. 

With contributory negligence (which is technically called “pure contributory negligence”), the plaintiff can’t recover anything if they were even slightly at fault for their injuries. Even if the accident was 99 percent the defendant’s fault and only 1 percent the plaintiff’s fault, the plaintiff’s contributory negligence bars them from any right to compensation.

Which theory the courts apply varies from state to state. Only five jurisdictions use the pure contributory negligence rule: Alabama, Maryland, North Carolina, Virginia, and the District of Columbia. The other 46 states all apply comparative fault to some degree.

If contributory negligence sounds like a terrible deal for injury victims compared to comparative fault, that’s because it is. Unfortunately, since the system of negligence that applies to your case depends on the jurisdiction where you suffered your injuries, there’s nothing you can do about it.

Exceptions to Contributory Negligence

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While contributory negligence remains a harsh system, North Carolina law does provide some exceptions to this standard to reduce the likelihood of an excessively unjust ruling against an injured party. There are a few ways you can overcome a contributory negligence defense in court.

Gross Negligence Doctrine

If the defendant’s willful or wanton conduct caused your injuries, then the defendant can’t claim contributory negligence. In essence, it means that if the defendant intentionally fails to exercise reasonable care—or in other words, acted with reckless disregard—then your own negligence won’t bar you from recovery.

This might come into play in a drunk driving case, for example, with a grossly negligent intoxicated driver traveling significantly over the speed limit. Even if you would otherwise be considered contributorily negligent (for example, you were traveling 5 miles per hour over the speed limit or failed to signal a turn), you could still get compensation for your damages.

Last Clear Chance Rule

Alternatively, if you can show that the defendant had the last clear chance to avoid an accident and failed to do so, then the defendant can still be held accountable, even under contributory negligence. 

Last Clear Chance is a defense to the defense of contributory negligence. However, the plaintiff must show that, although she may have had some fault for the incident, the defendant had the time and the means to still avoid the incident but failed to do so. This is difficult to prove.

Working With Contributory Negligence 

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So, if you suffered your injuries in North Carolina, you’re stuck working under the contributory negligence rule. That means if you want to get fair compensation through a personal injury lawsuit, you’ll need to either show that the defendant was entirely at fault for your injuries, or that your situation qualifies for an exception. 

The other party’s insurance company knows they only need to show that you were at least 1 percent at fault for the accident to win the case, so they will be looking for any possible excuse to do so from the very beginning. One piece of ambiguous evidence, or misstatement you make when speaking with the claims adjuster, could threaten your entire recovery.

What can you do to help your case? 

The best thing you can do to improve your chances of a successful financial recovery is to hire an experienced personal injury lawyer who can give you candid advice and fight on your behalf in court. 

RELATED: Here’s What You Should Expect in a Personal Injury Deposition

Benefits of Hiring an Attorney

Having an experienced attorney advocate on your side who can prepare for and defend against their efforts can be extremely helpful. 

A qualified attorney should be able to give you an honest and realistic assessment of your odds of winning your case. Even if it’s disappointing to find out that you have only a small chance of successfully recovering compensation for your injuries, it is better to figure this out before you ever set foot in a courtroom rather than after you’ve sunk countless hours (and dollars) into preparing legal paperwork, gathering evidence, and figuring out how to represent yourself at trial. 

And although it’s possible to represent yourself in a personal injury lawsuit, it is often an uphill battle for victims. This is especially true in jurisdictions like North Carolina that use the pure contributory negligence rule. Meanwhile, contacting an experienced personal injury attorney for a consultation should be free and could make all the difference for your case. 

Contact Myers Law Firm if You’ve Been Injured in Mecklenburg County

At Myers Law Firm, we work to demand justice and fair compensation for the victims of senseless injuries. If you or a loved one has been injured due to someone else’s negligence, we’re here to help. If you choose us to represent you, we’ll act as your advocate and use our legal experience to fight relentlessly on your behalf until your case reaches a resolution. 

Call our offices today at (888) 376-2889 or fill out the contact form on our website to schedule your free initial consultation with us. We’ll use this time to get to know you, learn about your situation, and inform you about your legal options so you can go forward with confidence. 

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How Does Separate Property Become Marital Property?

During a divorce or separation, emotions run high. Even an amicable split is stressful and difficult. And one of the biggest headaches in these kinds of circumstances can be caused by the division of assets, especially when it seems particularly unfair to one side.

Understanding what separate property is, and how one spouse’s separate property can become marital property, will help prepare you for the legal process of property division.

North Carolina is not a “community property” state. Instead, our state follows the “equitable distribution” method of dividing property when spouses are separating. This means that property is divided fairly in the eyes of the court, and that does not necessarily mean each side receives an equal share of the property. “Equitable” does not have to mean “equal.”

If you want to protect your separate property during a divorce, an experienced family lawyer like Myers Law Firm can guide you through the process and help you find the documentation to prove that your assets should not be included in the division of marital property.

What Is Marital Property and What Is Separate Property?

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In the event of a divorce, there are different classifications for property and assets. These classifications determine whether the property goes to one spouse, or whether each spouse has a claim to the value of the property.

Marital Property

Marital property is anything that was acquired from the date of marriage to the date of separation, with exceptions for separate property like gifts and inheritances clearly belonging to one spouse.

Marital property typically includes any wages, assets like houses or cars, real estate, investment accounts, retirements accounts, bank accounts, and debts. Even if an account only has one spouse’s name on it, it is still marital property if it was acquired during the marriage.

Separate Property

Separate property includes property that was acquired before marriage, or any property acquired during the marriage that was a gift or inheritance for one spouse.

Divisible Property

There is a third classification in North Carolina, which is called divisible property. This is property that was acquired before the date of separation, but was received after separation, or marital property for which the value has changed since separation.

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The Presumption of Marital Property

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One very important factor in all of this is the “presumption” that applies to the definitions of marital versus separate property.

Under North Carolina law, all property that was owned by either spouse on the date of separation is presumed to be marital property. What this means is that the spouse who is claiming that a certain piece of property is separate property must present sufficient evidence to overcome the presumption and prove that the property qualifies under the definition of separate property. If sufficient evidence is presented, then the property should be declared to be separate property.

Why Property Classification Matters

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The classification of property is incredibly important because a judge can decide how marital property gets divided up between the spouses. Separate property only belongs to one spouse, and therefore cannot be awarded to the other spouse. However, separate property can become marital property in certain scenarios.

When separate property gets mixed with marital property, these “comingled” assets can become marital property or be considered “mixed” property that is partly separate and partly marital.

RELATED: Equitable Distribution — What Does “Marital Property” Mean in Property Division Cases?

Real Estate: Separate or Marital Property?

One of the most complicated comingling of assets is the marital house. If one spouse owned the house before marriage, it is a separate asset. However, if the other spouse moves in, what happens then?

If the other spouse is added to the deed, then North Carolina law says that the house becomes marital property. This is usually pretty straightforward.

If the value of a house that is separate property goes up due to the real estate market only, for example, that appreciation is considered separate property.

However, if money that is earned during the marriage is used for upkeep, the mortgage, or renovations, the non-owner spouse will gain a marital interest in the property. In some cases, they only have a claim to the appreciation in value, such as if they contributed to renovations that made the house more valuable. This calculation can be very contentious and requires good recordkeeping.

RELATED: Who Gets the House in a Divorce in North Carolina?

How About Other Assets, Accounts, and Debt?

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While real estate and houses are major considerations in property division, there are a variety of other ones as well. Various accounts, investments, and even debt are all reviewed in cases of legal separation and divorce:

Appreciating Assets (Investments)

Separate property assets that appreciate passively, like investment accounts, real estate, and collectibles, remain as separate property. However, if someone were to use marital assets to fund an investment account, that action can then turn the asset into mixed separate and marital property.

Similarly, if a retirement account acquired before marriage continues to receive contributions after the date of marriage, this converts the account into mixed separate and marital property. With extremely good recordkeeping or forensic accounting, it may be possible to determine which portion of the account is separate property and which portion is marital property, but this can be very difficult and time-consuming.

Depreciating Assets

For depreciating assets like automobiles, boats, RVs, furniture, etc., the same rules apply. If they were acquired before marriage, or after marriage with separate funds, they are separate assets. If they were acquired after marriage using marital funds, they are marital property that will be divided between the spouses. The fair market value of the assets plays a part in the equitable distribution of such property.

As an example, if a boat is acquired during marriage but paid for with money that is separate property, then the boat is also separate property. However, if the other spouse makes any contribution to payments or upkeep, it could change the classification to mixed property.


Debt can be very contentious to settle. Debt acquired before marriage is separate property. As a general rule, if the debt was taken on during the marriage and was for the benefit of the marriage, both spouses are typically responsible for the debt.

Student loan debt taken on during the marriage can sometimes be treated as separate debt, but if the other spouse benefitted from the education, or if the loan money was used to benefit the marriage (such as payment for groceries or rent), then the debt is marital property.

Unfortunately, if your spouse had hidden credit cards from you during your marriage, you may need to prove that you did not benefit from the things your spouse purchased in order to treat that debt as separate property.

Bank Accounts

Bank accounts that start out as separate property must be treated carefully so as not to become marital property. If you deposit marital property into a bank account, such as a paycheck, that can count as comingling assets. If you use money from a separate bank account to make payments on a marital loan or mortgage, that is considered a gift to the marriage.

When you have a joint bank account, there is typically less question as to whether it is considered marital property or not. In this instance, the joint account belongs collectively to the married couple and falls in the category of marital property.

Gifts and Inheritance

Gifts and inheritance bequeathed to a single spouse, whether before or during the marriage, are typically treated as separate property. If the other spouse contributes towards the asset and increases its value, it can become mixed separate and marital property.

Myers Law Firm Will Help You Figure Out Marital Property Versus Separate Property in a Divorce

If you believe you have separate property during the dissolution of your marriage, it can be challenging to find the documentation necessary to prove your sole ownership. The help of a divorce attorney like Myers Law Firm can be invaluable. We can assist you in understanding your rights and options during stressful circumstances like this.

Schedule your consultation with Myers Law Firm by calling 1-888-376-ATTY (2889) or using our online contact form. Our knowledge of the local court system in Charlotte and Mecklenburg County will help us answer your questions about how your property may be classified during your divorce.

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Who Gets the House in a Divorce in North Carolina?

Deciding to separate and proceed with a divorce isn’t easy, but it’s only the first step in a sometimes-long process. When the emotional weight of splitting up with your spouse is still heavy in the air, maybe the last thing you want to do is think about what will happen to your family home.

An experienced divorce attorney can help you understand what options you have in moving forward. You’ll have to think hard about keeping the house, selling it, or contesting your spouse’s plans. It’s usually not an easy decision, but it can be even more difficult when there’s an emotional attachment to where you live.

There’s more than one possible answer, and the best one for you could require a greater understanding about the process.

Who Decides Who Gets the House in a Divorce?

Couples have the option of reaching an agreement when it comes to dividing assets. While this is the simplest and least costly option, sometimes the case has to proceed to court for a judge to make the final decision. At the conclusion of a trial, the judge will have to decide what they think is an equitable division of the property.

The judge will have to look carefully at all assets the couple owns before making any decisions on dividing property.

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What Does Property Division Look Like in Divorce?

Who Gets the House in a Divorce in North Carolina

The court has a lot of discretion when it comes to dividing assets. The process starts with the court categorizing assets into three categories:

  • Marital property
  • Separate property
  • Divisible property

Marital Property

Marital property is all the real and personal property acquired from the date of the marriage up to the date of the separation. Houses and mortgages often fall into the marital property classification if the couple purchased the home after getting married, even if the property is only listed in one person’s name.

Divisible Property

Divisible property is the change in value of marital property from the date of separation until the date of distribution of the property. House valuations, ongoing upkeep, and tenant payments could all affect this amount.

Separate Property

Separate property is real or personal property that a spouse owned before the marriage or that came to them as an inheritance or gift in their name alone during the marriage. If one party’s parents gave the couple the house as a gift, it likely doesn’t count as separate property.

Sometimes, a house can be converted from separate property to marital property during a marriage. If a couple modifies a deed to include both names, it could convert the property to marital property. If the non-named spouse helped with finances or upkeep of the house during the marriage, the spouse acquires a marital interest in the property.

Marital and divisible property can both be divided by the court, while separate property is just that – separate. If the house is considered separate property, it will remain with the appropriate owner. If the house counts as marital or divisible property, the court will handle the division with equitable distribution.

RELATED: 5 Common Questions About Property Division During a Divorce

North Carolina and Equitable Distribution

The division of property after separation in North Carolina follows equitable distribution. This term means that the law presumes that an equal division is equitable. However, there are grounds for a judge to make an unequal division and the division still be equitable. A judge will decide whether to allow for an unequal division by looking at several factors, including:

  • Incomes, debts, and separate property
  • Contributions to the household beyond finances
  • Help during the other spouse’s education and professional development

When it comes time to consider how the house will be divided, a judge could also take custody matters into consideration. The parent that receives primary physical custody could get to stay in the marital home to keep the children secure. This decision still leaves the question of covering the mortgage, paying property taxes, and compensating the other spouse for such a large asset.

Fault Affecting the House

Fault can affect alimony and spousal support if a spouse cheated or had an affair, but North Carolina doesn’t consider fault when considering equitable distribution. This means that the offending spouse can still get their fair share of the property, including the house.

Do You Have to Sell the House?

Who Gets the House in a Divorce in North Carolina

Selling the house and splitting the proceeds might be the simplest option, but it’s not the only one. There are ways to keep the house in the family, but it’s important to remember that some choices can come with complications, ranging from emotional effects to tax implications.

  • Balancing assets: One spouse can choose to keep the house while trading an equal value of other assets in exchange. When paying outright isn’t possible, a spouse can offer other assets with a high enough value to balance the scales.
  • Payments over time: If one spouse keeps the house but does not have enough other assets to make the division of property equal, that spouse can pay the other over time. These payments are called a distributive award.

Figuring out how these plans play out might only be the beginning of a complex solution. Property disagreements, a spouse passing, and bankruptcy could all have major impacts on what happens to a house.

How Can a Homeowner Find the Right Divorce Lawyer?

Who Gets the House in a Divorce in North Carolina

Experienced help can be vital for a spouse considering divorce, especially when an asset as big as a house is included in the discussion. Often the largest asset a person will own, the outcome of division can have a lasting impact on a person’s life.

But before you hire a divorce lawyer to help you with your case, it’s important to think about a few details:

  • Do my final expectations align with my attorney’s?
  • Do I agree with my attorney’s approach?
  • Does my attorney have experience in this area?

Answering these questions starts with research, but it’s important to get to know the law firm you’re working with before you sign a contract.

Why Might Myers Law Firm Be the Right Choice for Homeowners in Divorce?

Planning for the future of a house can be an enormous task to do alone, especially with the included challenge of the divorce process. Myers Law Firm has over 60 years of combined experience helping clients approach divorce and property division, and is ready to work with you to get your fair and equitable share.

Reach out by calling 1-888-376–2889 or complete our brief online contact form to schedule a free consultation. We’ll discuss your case and your options, so you can create a plan for handling your house through a divorce.


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How to Choose the Right North Carolina Personal Injury Lawyer for You

Getting into an accident can push you into a whole world you haven’t entered before. Dealing with another driver’s negligence, their insurance company, and the legal system can be an enormous undertaking for someone who’s never even had to make a claim before.

When you need to manage a personal injury claim, it might be time to hire an experienced personal injury lawyer to help you in the process. But when expenses from a car accident can change your life, it’s essential to find an attorney who can successfully support your claim in a way that aligns with your requirements.

This isn’t a matter of choosing the first attorney you find online (although, that very well might turn out to be the one who’s right for you). It’s about investing the time now to make sure you’ve got the best help you can find. And understanding the process upfront can mean peace of mind as you navigate the sometimes-difficult process of building and supporting a personal injury claim.

When Should a Person Consider Hiring an Attorney for Their Personal Injury Cases?

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Know When a Personal Injury Attorney Can Help a Claim

If there’s no damage or injuries, it’s possible that you don’t need to hire an experienced personal injury lawyer. But if you need ongoing medical care, have a traumatic brain injury, or are going to have future lost wages or earning capacity, it’s probably time to consider the option.

There Might Not Be a “Too Soon”

If it makes sense to hire a personal injury attorney, waiting may only hurt your chance of fair compensation. Saying the wrong thing to an adjuster, forgetting to track medical expenses, or missing important windows for legal action could all happen if you wait too long to get help.

When evidence and statements from the scene of the accident matter, it’s important to think about the future of your claim. But a traumatic experience can make navigating a personal injury claim even harder, especially with North Carolina’s law of contributory negligence. These type of issues often makes hiring an experienced personal injury lawyer from the very beginning a good choice.

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What Does a Personal Injury Attorney Do, and When Should You Consider Hiring One?

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Understand if You Have a Personal Injury Claim Worth Pursuing

First, a personal injury attorney can help you decide if you have a case or not. The ultimate decision is with you, but someone with experience navigating claims according to North Carolina law can help you weigh your options.

Even if you think your claim is worth money, there are a few factors to consider:

  • Is the potential amount of money you might be awarded worth filing and defending your claim?
  • Will you likely receive enough to cover your costs and attorney fees?
  • Can you show that the other driver was negligent and that they caused your injuries?

Fortunately, many personal injury lawyers offer free initial consultations, so you can better understand your legal options without financial risk.

Find Out How Much Your Claim Could be Worth

Major injuries, property damage, and lost wages can add up to a lot of unexpected costs, but it’s hard to know what price to put on the effects of a car accident.

An attorney can help you determine what costs to include in personal injury claims:

  • Physical injuries. Emergency, ongoing, and future medical expenses could quickly grow.
  • Pain and suffering. Beyond medical bills, mental anguish and physical pain can equate to a monetary value.
  • Necessary changes. Home and vehicle accessibility upgrades can be essential after a serious injury.
  • Missed earnings. Lost wages or earning potential due to an accident can count as a cost from the accident.
  • Property damage. Car repairs or damage to things inside the vehicle can also count toward costs.

But claiming the injuries can also depend on what you can prove.

RELATED: Compensation Explained: What Can I Receive From My Injury Case?

Get Support as You Defend Your Claim

Crafting your claim is only the beginning of the process. You’ll still need to support it with evidence and defend it if the insurance company isn’t willing to offer a fair settlement. From security cameras to eyewitness testimony, it’s important to track down evidence and witness statements and incorporate them into a claim.

Drivers can also rely on things like depositions, anti-spoilation, and Public Records Law requirements, but it may be daunting to manage all of that on their own. A lawyer can help you understand what kind of evidence matters, where you can find it, and how to preserve it.

What Should You Learn About a Personal Injury Attorney Before Hiring Them?

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Make Sure the Lawyer Can Practice in Your Region

It’s important to know where the lawyer you choose can practice law. If a driver is injured in North Carolina, they’ll have to find a lawyer able to practice in the state. Beyond that, a lawyer that has localized knowledge of laws, and clerk and court operations, can be helpful.

Find Out the Lawyer’s Experience

Lawyers often focus on specific areas of the law, and it’s important to know if they have a history of working in the area you need help. An attorney that works mostly in workers’ comp with little focus on motor vehicle accidents might not be the best fit for your personal injury case. Larger firms can have teams that focus on different things, but then you’ll have to consider if that’s the kind of experience you’re looking for.

Get the Right Fit for Your Case

Bigger doesn’t always mean better when it comes to a law firm. A larger firm can get around knowledge gaps with sheer resources, but a smaller firm with a more personal touch can deliver a tailored approach.

Think about what you want from your case and see how the firm answers your questions with their actions. How much time will the firm dedicate to your case? Can you get in touch with someone when you call with questions? Will they keep you updated on your claim?

Reach Out and Learn More

Research is a good first step but finding out if a lawyer aligns with you can really depend on a conversation. When a free case evaluation is available, it’s worth the time to see if you’re comfortable with their approach, they have room to take on your personal injury case, and you align on what your claim could be worth.

Take a Look at Their Resume

Lawyers new to practicing law or that have recently changed disciplines or entered a new area might not have the expertise you need to successfully support your claim. Find out how long they’ve been practicing, what organizations they support, which associations endorse them, and their track record of success in recent cases.

What Can a Personal Injury Lawyer Do for a Client if They Have to Work With an Insurance Company?

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Your personal injury claim will likely involve the negligent driver’s insurance company. Even if you have a well-supported personal injury case, it’s not a guarantee that the insurance company will pay your losses. There are a few tactics that insurance adjusters might follow:

  • Offer less than fair compensation
  • Discount or refuse to consider expenses in your claim
  • Try to show you’re partially responsible for the accident
  • Try to deny payment altogether

Your position isn’t necessarily wrong. The insurance company is focused on making money by paying out as little as possible on claims. This means the insurance adjuster is not on your side. Refuting your claim can come in different forms and be coupled with different ways of getting you to accept less, like asking leading questions to get you to accept some of the blame.

This circumstance is where a personal injury lawyer can step in. You can allow the attorney to deal with the insurance company on your behalf, so you don’t have to worry about slipping up because of rules and tactics you don’t know about.

RELATED: 9 Secrets the Insurance Adjuster Doesn’t Want You to Know

Why Might Myers Law Firm be Your Right Choice?

You’ve got plenty of options when it comes to hiring a personal attorney but getting an attorney for your case can seem like a lot of work. Hiring the right attorney, though, could ultimately mean a lot less work and the possibility of a better outcome.

Myers Law Firm could be that right choice for you after an accident. We’ve got over 60 years of combined experience serving accident victims in North Carolina. Our experienced team has been fighting for the injured to get them the help they deserve.

We offer a free consultation, so don’t hesitate to reach out to our office at 888-376-2889 or with our short online form to schedule a consultation. We’ll review your case, learn what you expect from your recovery, and help you better understand your legal options.

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How Do You Manage a Vehicle Accident Lawsuit?

Car accidents might be over in an instant, but the procedures that follow can seem never-ending. When you’ve never had to make a big insurance claim or file court paperwork before, trying to manage the whole process alone can leave you feeling stranded in another world.

The law isn’t always easy to understand on your own. Hiring an experienced personal injury lawyer can help you work through the steps involved with a lawsuit. To give you a better understanding of what this entails, let’s look at how to navigate your way through a vehicle accident lawsuit.

What Should Drivers Do After a Car Accident?

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The lead-up to a lawsuit starts the moment of an accident. Laying the right groundwork can ultimately have a profound impact—positively or negatively—so it’s important for drivers to know what they should (and shouldn’t) do.

Don’t Ditch the Evidence

The evidence surrounding a car accident doesn’t always last forever. Eyewitnesses sometimes forget important details. Nearby shops could delete useful security footage. Skid marks fade away over time. Even visiting the repair shop and getting damage repaired without taking photos first can make it harder to prove a claim. You should document everything about your case through photos and taking good notes.

Don’t Talk to the Insurance Company

If the negligent driver’s insurance company becomes involved after a car accident, it’s likely that an insurance adjuster will contact the victim. They’ll ask questions and take statements, but it’s rarely done in an effort to offer fair compensation. The insurance provider could work against the victim, using their words against them later to lower payouts or even deny a claim altogether.

Do Get Medical Attention

Seeing a doctor right after an accident can be crucial for a healthy recovery:

  • Symptoms don’t always show up right away
  • Minor injuries can turn severe
  • A prompt visit can help connect injuries to a car accident

Do Track Everything

From medical expenses to doctor’s notes to missed time from work, it’s important to save everything that relates to a case. Insurance adjusters may try calling judgment into question, but a paper trail and doctor’s notes can strengthen a car accident claim.

Do Look Into Hiring a Personal Injury Attorney

Serious injuries can be overwhelming, but there’s help available. Even if a driver has done everything right, it can still take an experienced personal injury attorney to know what to do next.

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Does a Car Accident Victim Need a Personal Injury Attorney?

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Not every car accident benefits from hiring a lawyer and filing a lawsuit, but passing on legal representation without talking over a case with an attorney could cost the victim in the end:

  • Building a strong case takes a lot of time and experience, and going it alone can be risky
  • It’s difficult to navigate all the legal requirements of filing a lawsuit and supporting a claim
  • Insurance companies might try to take advantage of drivers by making low offers and applying high pressure

Evaluating a personal injury claim can be a complicated process, and victims could benefit from reaching out for legal help.

RELATED: Do You Have a Personal Injury Case? Here’s How Attorneys Decide

Preserving Evidence From a Crash

Drivers can start collecting evidence on their own, but an experienced attorney knows where to look and how the law helps:

  • Official witness testimony. In-person questioning, or a sworn written account, can help uncover details that led to an accident. Making the process official through a deposition or an affidavit puts the process under oath.
  • Anti-spoliation letter. Sometimes, obtaining evidence is out of a victim’s hands, but a written demand to preserve evidence can keep proof intact. If the defendant has car damage that supports a case, getting repairs after an anti-spoliation letter could result in consequences.
  • Public Records Law. If there were traffic cameras on the scene, it’s not always obvious how to get the footage. Sometimes it’s also important to get the 911 call because these records may be destroyed after a certain period of time. Your attorney could file a request for access to some documents held by public agencies.

Understanding Contributory Negligence

North Carolina has a legal principle called contributory negligence that outlines who can get compensation after a car accident. If a driver shares any responsibility at all for a crash, the law says they aren’t entitled to any recovery for damages.

When 1% of blame is enough to stop a claim, working with an experienced attorney becomes crucial. A strong legal strategy might be the only way to show an insurance company or jury that the negligence falls entirely on one driver.

Navigating Deadlines in Personal Injury Cases

Though injuries can last a lifetime, the window for beginning a personal injury lawsuit does not. Victims in North Carolina generally have three years from the time of the car accident to bring a claim. This is called the statute of limitations.

Damages that stem from an easily identifiable cause, like a car accident, will often signal the start date of the statute of limitations. Drivers will be barred from compensation if they haven’t settled or filed a lawsuit before their statute of limitations expires.

It’s not always clear to a victim exactly when the clock beings to tick, but legal representation can help look at the evidence and offer guidance for legal strategy.

Decide Whether to Settle or File a Lawsuit

While it falls on the victim’s shoulders to build a strong argument for damages after a car accident, that doesn’t mean a claim will cover every cost. The other driver’s insurance company will usually make an initial offer that doesn’t come close to meeting the list of damages.

Victims need to understand what a personal injury claim can include after a car accident:

  • Economic losses. Costs that can be tied to the car accident with a receipt generally fall into this category. Medical bills, accessibility upgrades, lost wages, and property damage can all stem from a car accident.
  • Non-economic losses. Damages aren’t always as easy as showing bills. Physical pain, depression, lost happiness, and post-traumatic stress disorder can add up to a big piece of a car accident claim but might be harder to prove.
  • Punitive damages. Reckless or malicious behaviors like drunk driving can lead to punishments for the defendant. These additional damages can also be included in the lawsuit.

Finding an accurate number for damages is an essential but complicated process that an experienced legal team can help work through. Your attorney will work through settlement negotiations to get the best offer that the insurance company is willing to make before you file a lawsuit.

RELATED: How Do Pain and Suffering Damages Work in Personal Injury Claims?

What Does the Lawsuit Process Look Like?

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When the evidence is in order and the legal requirements are met, it’s time to undergo a step-by-step process.

Evaluate the Insurance Offer

The insurance provider will decide on whether to make a settlement offer and for what amount. It will be up to the driver and their attorney to review the offer and decide if it adequately covers the cost of damages.

If amount isn’t fair, then it becomes time for a lawsuit.

File a Complaint With the Clerk’s Office

Drivers have to put together a formal complaint that includes specific allegations and file it at the clerk’s office. This action makes the victim the plaintiff, and the person they’re suing becomes the defendant. The clerk’s office will issue a summons, which the plaintiff will have to serve to the defendant along with the complaint.

The defendant has 30 days to respond, with one extension available for another 30 days. Their answer will include a number of defenses, most of which may not even be applicable, but it could also include counterclaims, which the plaintiff will need to answer.

Get Evidence on the Record

After everything is filed and answered, there’s a time for gathering information. This is called the discovery phase. This period is where the official witness testimonies from depositions take place. The plaintiff, the defendant, and other witnesses could all have to have their deposition taken. There are also written discovery requests that must be answered and documents that must be produced.

Go Through Mediation or Arbitration

North Carolina courts require personal injury cases to go through mediation or arbitration before they make it to trial. In both instances, a neutral third party tries to help the plaintiff and defendant come to an agreement:

  • A professional mediator will attempt to work with both sides toward an agreement, but the process isn’t totally binding. Either party can leave the table, which will bring the case to trial.
  • An arbitrator will hear both sides of the complaint, then make a decision. A court-ordered arbitration decision can be appealed which will bring the case to trial.

Resolve the Issue in Court

If a claim makes it all the way to trial without a settlement, the plaintiff will have to support their claim before a jury. The jury will weigh the plaintiff’s evidence against the defendant’s and come to a decision. There’s room to file an appeal if there’s an undesirable outcome, otherwise, the decision becomes final.

Myers Law Firm Can Help

If you’ve been in an accident and are trying to determine whether to file a lawsuit, contact Myers Law Firm. We’re ready to sit down and look over the details of your case and help you determine your next steps.

Our team has over 60 years of combined help serving the injured in North Carolina, and we’re here to support you. We know the process from beginning to end and fight tirelessly for victims throughout.

Call us at 888-376-2889 or fill out our brief contact form for a free consultation.

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What Are the Worst Car Crash Injuries That Might Need Legal Help?

A car accident might happen in an instant, but the fallout can last for years to come. Victims often have a long road to overcoming debilitating injuries while being faced with a mountain of unexpected costs.

Recovering after a car accident can entail managing your treatments, dealing with car and health insurance, and legal strategies. Working with an experienced personal injury lawyer could help you get the compensation you deserve.

How Do Car Accidents Happen?

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Car accidents happen for a variety of reasons and cause a range of injuries. While circumstances like driving in poor weather conditions can be dangerous, another driver’s negligence is more often what causes an accident. Drunk driving, drug use (even legitimate medication), failing to yield or stay in the correct lane, and careless or distracted driving are some of the leading types of negligence and causes of injuries.

The blunt force trauma of an auto accident can make the situation even worse. Head-on collisions, rollover accidents, or additional vehicles involved may increase the likelihood of lifelong injuries or conditions, but even simple rear-end collisions can cause long-term effects.

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What Are Possible Life-Altering Injuries From Car Crashes?

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In 2020, drivers who suffered injuries in car accidents shared an estimated $473 billion in costs. Those expenses included treatments and wage loss because of injuries. Many types of injuries add to climbing medical costs, but there are a few serious kinds that can greatly contribute to a compensation claim:

  • Traumatic brain injuries: When the head connects with the headrest, steering wheel, window, or frame of the car, problems can go a lot further than facial injuries – damage to the brain is likely. And when there’s a serious blow to the head, the effects might last a lifetime. From emergency surgery to ongoing mental anguish, the expenses and challenges of a brain injury can keep growing.
  • Spinal cord injury: Motorcycle and car accidents cause over half of new spinal cord injuries annually. Medical conditions ranging from lower back damage and up to upper neck injuries like aggravated ligaments, fractured vertebrae, and damaged nerves can cause paralysis and other complications that make it difficult to achieve independence after an accident.
  • Amputation: Traumatic injuries, like what drivers experience in a car accident, make up about 45% of amputations. The force of an accident can damage a limb so severely that it is removed, either by the impact or a later surgical procedure. Victims will likely face ongoing therapy, accessibility renovation costs, and continued pain and suffering.
  • Internal organ damage: What starts as a light tenderness can be a sign of serious internal injury. A broken rib could puncture a lung, or a seatbelt can apply too much force to the intestines. Whatever the cause, organ injuries might lead to internal bleeding and failed bodily functions, which usually means emergency surgery is necessary.
  • Broken bones: The force of a car accident may be too much for bones to handle, and clean breaks aren’t always the outcome. Bones that completely separate or break through the skin can come with potential organ, tendon, and ligament damage and require immediate surgery to repair. Common broken bones can include the foot and ankle, up the legs, and the arms and hands.

Related video: Compensation Explained: What Can I Receive From My Injury Case?

Why Is Medical Treatment So Important Following a Car Crash?

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Getting proper medical attention after an accident is crucial for several reasons:

  • Your number one goal after an accident is to take care of yourself and your health. Even with the most severe injuries, slow-onset symptoms or shock can disguise warning signs and waiting to act could be extremely dangerous.
  • Going to the doctor right after a car accident makes it easier to show the direct line of causation from an auto accident to symptoms and treatments.
  • Finally, it’s important to have receipts to support your claim. Visiting the doctor will allow you to start accounting for all the costs you face from an accident, along with emergency treatment, therapy, and ongoing medication. Saving all receipts from your medical care will be helpful when you seek reimbursement.

You Got Medical Help, but How Do You Get Insurance Help?

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Most drivers don’t have the money necessary to cover another person’s personal injury costs, which is where their insurance company comes into play. The insurance company might make an offer to cover expenses after a car accident. But too often, the amount doesn’t match the actual cost of an accident. Settlement offers don’t always include pain and suffering, mental anguish, and ongoing care.

It’s important to consult a personal injury lawyer to decide whether the offer is fair based on the circumstances of your accident. If the insurance company doesn’t agree to what you view as a fair offer, it might be time to file a lawsuit.

Myers Law Firm Is Here to Help You After a Severe Car Accident Injury

At Myers Law Firm, we understand how serious injuries from a car accident can change your life. When you’re facing unexpected trouble because of someone else’s negligence, we’re here to help you.

We have over 60 years of combined experience in helping car accident victims get the compensation they deserve, so call our office at 888-376-2889 or fill out our brief online form to schedule a free consultation.


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Shores, Jaimie Troyal, M.D. (2022). Amputation. John Hopkins Medicine: Health. https://www.hopkinsmedicine.org/health/treatment-tests-and-therapies/amputation

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How Are Typical Car Accident Settlement Amounts Determined?

Sometimes things change the course of your day or your week. Car accidents can change your life. The ripples from a car accident can affect your health, your family, and your happiness far into the future.  

Millions of drivers across the country suffer injuries from car accidents every year, and the costs that stem from those accidents can be hard to measure. From compassionate medical staff to experienced personal injury lawyers, it can take a lot of help to get a fair car accident settlement to help to recover. 

Compensation from an accident should include all kinds of unexpected hardships, such as car repairs or lost wages, but those facing significant and ongoing medical expenses after an auto accident can have the largest undertaking ahead of them. 

What Are Common Car Accident Injuries? 

The violent force of a car accident can put the whole body in danger: 

  • Back injuries: Torn and sprained muscles are just the beginning. Auto accidents are one of the country’s leading causes of spinal cord injury. From a herniated disc injury to nerve damage, cases of serious pain and paralysis can be connected directly to car accidents. 
  • Neck injuries: A continuation of back injuries, the spine is also vulnerable in the neck area. Car crashes often send the head back and forth quickly, causing whiplash or worse. These injuries can lead to loss of movement and sharp pain that extends into the shoulders and arms. 
  • Head injuries: Drivers with head injuries can find the road to recovery full of medical complications. Headaches, seizures, and weakness are symptoms of head trauma, along with sleep, balance, behavior, and long-term memory problems. 

Major injuries play a big role in accident costs, but seemingly minor injuries can also lead to chronic, debilitating issues. An injured driver thinking about skipping the trip to the doctor because “the pain isn’t that bad” should think twice for several reasons: 

  • Injuries like internal wounds and spinal injuries might not show signs right away but should be treated as soon as possible 
  • Slow-developing mental and emotional trauma can be found early in the healing process 
  • Immediate doctor visits can create a stronger link to injuries the accident caused 

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Why Hire a Personal Injury Lawyer? 

Challenges after a car accident can last a lifetime, like keeping up with outstanding medical bills, preparing for future medical bills, and facing health insurance liens. An experienced personal injury attorney could help you build a strong case under North Carolina law so you can get the compensation you deserve. 

To receive full compensation after a car accident requires showing several things: 

  • The other driver was negligent 
  • Their negligent actions caused your injuries or damages 
  • Evidence supporting your claim 

Missteps in these three key components could cost you in recovering your losses, so let’s explore each of them more closely. 

The Other Driver’s Actions Were Negligent 

Negligence is the failure to act in a safe manner with the level of care that a reasonable person would exercise in the same circumstances. A driver that didn’t pay attention to traffic, obey posted speed limits, or take any actions to avoid a crash could be negligent. 

Collecting information to prove negligence can include conducting investigations, consulting experts, and combing through reports. An experienced car accident attorney knows where to look for answers that coincide with North Carolina’s legal standards. 

RELATED: How an Attorney Can Help Preserve Evidence in Your Injury Case 

Their Negligent Actions Caused Your Damages 

In order to get full compensation for your losses, you must show that the other driver’s negligence and your injuries are reasonably connected to each other. You might have an easier time saying a spinal injury immediately after an accident came from the crash. You might have a harder time showing the connection to a reaggravated injury or delayed diagnosis. 

You’ll Need to Show Evidence of Medical Bills and Other Losses 

Medical bills and vehicle damage are often linked to personal injury claims, but they might only be the beginning. A personal injury lawyer can help you understand how to establish and prove the damages in your claim. 

What Can a Personal Injury Claim Cover? 

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Personal injury claims cover the costs, or losses, from an accident. Known as “damages,” the medical bills, lost wages, physical injuries, pain and suffering, and property loss make up the components of a claim.  

Economic Damages 

The amount of money that an auto accident costs, from bills to missed income to future costs, plays a part in a personal injury claim: 

  • Medical bills like emergency care and surgeries 
  • Ongoing medications and physical therapy 
  • Home and vehicle accessibility upgrades 
  • Lost wages and earnings potential 
  • Car repairs or replacement 

These financial costs can quickly add up after a car accident, and keeping track of all of them will likely help support your claim. 

Non-economic Damages 

Claims also go beyond the type of losses that can be shown by a medical bill or receipt. Mental anguish and physical pain from a car accident include pain and suffering damages to a personal injury claim. This calculation is much more complicated than adding up financial costs but can hold a high monetary value. Pain and suffering can include a range of difficulties: 

  • Physical pain from injuries 
  • Anxiety or depression  
  • Panic attacks or post-traumatic stress disorder 
  • Loss of companionship, enjoyment, or happiness 

Punitive Damages 

While economic and non-economic car accident damages compensate you for costs, punitive damages are a form of punishment for the defendant for malicious or extremely reckless actions. This category can include behaviors like drunk driving. 

How Does North Carolina View Fault in Drivers? 

An auto accident settlement isn’t guaranteed if you’ve experienced damages. North Carolina is a contributory negligence state. This term means that if you share any fault for the accident, you can’t get compensation for any of your losses.  

Even if the other driver was 99% to blame for the accident, that still leaves you unable to pursue a personal injury claim. When the slightest tip of the scale can cost you compensation, it’s another reason to turn to an experienced legal team to help navigate contributory negligence. 

RELATED: Why Contributory Negligence Matters for Your Personal Injury Case 

Why Does the Insurance Company Matter in a Personal Injury Claim?

Most defendants don’t have the money to personally cover damages which is why insurance coverage often plays an important role. But if a driver can’t cover the cost and isn’t insured, then your insurance could come into play. There are a few policies and coverage limits that could decide how much you can recover financially: 

  • Liability insurance of the defendant 
  • Your Med Pay insurance policy 
  • Your uninsured and underinsured motorist (UM/UIM) coverage 

Reduced Offer After a Car Crash 

When an insurance company makes an offer, it doesn’t necessarily have to be fair. Instead, it’s often the first step of the negotiation process. Knowing what your claim is worth becomes even more important when the insurance company makes a settlement offer that is far below a reasonable amount.  

An insurance company could look at your medical records and place a much lower value on the losses than you do or argue that some damages have nothing to do with the claim. The adjuster could say a treatment wasn’t necessary or that a reinjury isn’t their responsibility. 

If you can’t arrive at an agreement with the insurance company, it might be time to file a lawsuit to take your case to trial. This step is a rare circumstance, but sometimes it’s necessary to get a fair settlement. 

Arguments Involving Contributory Negligence 

While you want to work toward a stronger car accident settlement at trial, an insurance company could try to devalue your claim completely. If they prove you shared blame for the accident, they’ll be off the hook for paying damages. 

Representing a strong claim and showing you didn’t share fault in the accident become vital to receiving a fair recovery. 

Myers Law Firm Can Work With You on Your Car Accident Settlement

Building a claim, finding supporting evidence, and defending your compensation are key parts of getting help after a car accident, but it’s extremely difficult to do on your own. Knowing the steps to take within the letter of North Carolina personal injury law can require the help of an experienced personal injury team. 

Myers Law Firm has over 60 years of combined experience standing up for injured people in North Carolina. We’re here to help you navigate the complex and stressful process that leads to a fair settlement to help with your losses after an auto accident. 

We offer a free and confidential discussion about your claim to help you understand what to do next. Schedule your consultation so we can get to know you and your case. Call our office at 888-376-2889 or fill out our brief online contact form today. 


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What to Do if You Have Back Pain After a Car Accident

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It shouldn’t be a surprise if you’re experiencing back pain after a car accident: Motorcycle and car accidents are the leading cause of spinal cord injuries every year. The big question is what you should do once the pain starts.  

Regardless if it’s a dull ache or intense pain, the damage from a car accident can be serious. Quick action can be essential to recovery. Consulting a doctor is an important step, along with speaking to an experienced personal injury lawyer to make sure you’re fully compensated after a car accident. 

Back Pain Can Appear in Different Ways After a Car Accident 

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The term back pain could lead to thoughts of sleeping in the wrong position or lifting a heavy object. But when it comes to car accidents, back pain can be a sign that something is seriously wrong. Drivers experiencing back pain after a car accident should be on the lookout for common symptoms: 

  • Aching or burning 
  • Sharp and pinching pains 
  • Muscle spasms 
  • Numbness 
  • Any level of paralysis 

While a doctor might use more scientific terms like damage to the lumbar spine or cervical spine, what back pain means is problems that can stretch from lower back to upper neck injuries, with pain reaching out in any direction. Shoulder pain, headaches, and limb numbness can all stem from back injuries. 

Even minor back pain after a car accident could be a sign of greater troubles, as every symptom doesn’t show up right away and some problems continue to worsen. And it’s not just growing discomfort, as paralysis can develop over time.  

Putting off a visit to the doctor can lead to complications and make recovering from the accident more difficult. Whiplash, herniated discs, and fractures can lead to serious long-term problems that require ongoing physical therapy and pain management. 

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What Do Personal Injury Claims for Car Accidents Cover? 

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The term “damages” can refer to property loss or mental anguish, but it specifically covers any losses from a car accident, including back pain. This type of compensation for physical injury can cover immediate medical bills and surgeries, medications, physical therapy, and even lost wages if the injury impacts your ability to work. 

These tangible costs are usually the first piece of the equation for compensation after a car accident. The second is pain and suffering, which can be harder to define. Chronic pain, bouts of depression, and lost enjoyment in life that stem from back pain are just some of the things that might not show up on a medical bill but can still count as damages. 

How Does a Back Injury Translate Into a Personal Injury Claim? 

Recovering costs associated with back pain starts with making a paper trail right after the car accident and relies on professional recommendations to forecast continuing challenges. It isn’t enough to explain in court that you’ve got facet joint injuries or a herniated disc. You’re going to want records and written reports to help you tell the story of your injuries. 

Records from your first trip to the hospital, prescribed pain management programs, and physical therapy assignments are only the beginning. Specialists can also detail chronic back pain and other hardships you’ll face in the future. 

RELATED: How Do I Know if the Insurance Company’s Settlement Offer Is Fair? 

The Insurance Company Isn’t in the Business of Helping You 

Showing your costs strengthens the case for financial recovery, but you’ll also need to show the injuries from the car accident aren’t your fault because North Carolina is a contributory negligence state. That means if a court finds the defendant 99% responsible for the collision, compensation for accident injuries isn’t an option because you made a 1% contribution. 

To assign responsibility, a judge or jury will decide if: 

  • The injured driver behaved like a reasonable person acting in a safe manner 
  • The defendant failed to act in a safe manner 

These standards will help determine the share of blame, or contributory negligence. 

Insurance companies are all too aware of this rule and will jump to use it to their advantage. It could only take one piece of evidence to show a fraction of contribution, thereby ending your ability to get compensation. 

Experienced Legal Aid Can Help You Recover From Back Pain After a Car Accident 

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That’s why finding legal help early in the process can be so important. Before any allegations arise, it can be beneficial to enlist experienced counsel that knows where to look for evidence in your favor and can deflate any allegations the insurance company might bring. 

Accident evidence doesn’t stick around forever, and undocumented treatment doesn’t support your case. It’s best to act quickly to preserve important information that can be used when dealing with the insurance company in negotiations or in court. 

Myers Law Firm Is Ready to Make Your Personal Injury Concerns Our Own 

Myers Law Firm is ready to meet with you to discuss your car accident case and review important documents. We can take this information to do our own investigation and then reach out to the insurance company on your behalf. We’ll work through the negotiation process, followed by filing a lawsuit if the insurance company doesn’t offer a reasonable settlement. 

Our initial consultation is free, and from there, we’ll work with you to build a case for the compensation you’re entitled to under North Carolina law. Our experienced, compassionate team is ready to stand up for you. 

Contact us today by calling (888) 376-2889 or complete our simple online contact form to schedule your free consultation. 


Mayo Clinic. Spinal Cord Injury. Patient Care & Health Information. Retrieved from https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/spinal-cord-injury/symptoms-causes/syc-20377890 

American Association of Neurological Surgeons. Spinal Cord Injury. Neurosurgical Conditions and Treatments. Retrieved from https://www.aans.org/en/Patients/Neurosurgical-Conditions-and-Treatments/Spinal-Cord-Injury 


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Emergency Custody in North Carolina

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Parents should be the people that children feel safest with—but sometimes a parent isn’t healthy for a child. If you’re concerned about the immediate wellbeing of a child, you have options for helping the child transfer to a safe environment (especially if you’re a parent, close relative, or other care provider).

One of the most urgent methods to help a child in a dangerous custody situation is a motion for emergency custody—an option in which you can quickly ask a judge for temporary custody to provide safety to an endangered child. However, this process can be complex, especially when emotions are running high. In this article, our team walks you through everything you need to know about emergency custody in North Carolina.

North Carolina Child Custody Law

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In North Carolina, “legal custody” grants a parent or guardian the right to make major life decisions for a child until they reach the age of 18; “physical custody” refers to the right of a parent or guardian to keep the child in their care, within their household. When separated parents share these responsibilities, it’s referred to as “joint custody.”

In some custody cases, a judge may decide that only one parent can make important life decisions and providing necessary care, but that the second parent is not a danger to the child. In this case, the first parent will be granted “primary custody” and take full responsibility for the child.  Meanwhile, the second parent is given specific periods of custody time known as “secondary custody.”

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What Is Emergency Custody and Who Can Petition It?

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When granted, an emergency custody order alters an existing custody arrangement.

For instance, if one parent is putting the child in their custody in immediate danger, the law gives the other parent the ability to go before a judge, present the situation, and seek temporary custody. This order will help the parent remove the child from the current parent’s custody and take the child into the safety of their own care. This emergency order will only be in effect for a short period of time. While this procedure mostly applies to parents, third parties, such as grandparents, may be able to utilize this procedure in the appropriate case.

Emergency custody is only granted in serious cases. You can’t obtain custody because you disagree with a parent’s parenting decision; in North Carolina, there must be proof of impending and physical danger. These situations include:

  • When the child is at a substantial risk of bodily injury: parents may have substance abuse problems
  • When the child is at a substantial risk of sexual abuse: this could be a parent or someone the parent allows around the child abusing the child
  • When the child is at a substantial risk of removal from North Carolina: this must be for the purpose of avoiding the authority of North Carolina courts (this can include relocating a child during a divorce, but not always)

RELATED ARTICLE: Can I Prevent My Spouse from Seeing the Children During a Divorce?

Who Can Get Emergency Custody?

In North Carolina, most of the successful emergency custody cases are filed by:

  • Another parent
  • A grandparent
  • A close relative such as an aunt, uncle, or sibling who is of age
  • Someone who have previously cared for the child but are not their parent

A judge has jurisdiction to rule for emergency custody only if the child has lived in North Carolina for at least six months, or since birth if the child is younger than six months old. In some cases, this restriction may be lifted for the safety of the child.

If you need to petition for emergency custody of a child, consider hiring an experienced child custody attorney to guide you through the process.

What Happens After Emergency Custody Is Granted?

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Once you’ve visited the courthouse and filed an emergency custody petition (more on that process in a bit), the judge will decide whether the case is extreme enough to warrant an emergency order.

Depending on the case, the judge could take anywhere from a couple minutes to a few days to decide the outcome.

If your motion is granted, here’s what will happen:

  • You will be granted temporary and short-term custody the moment the order is given.
  • The parent the child is with must be served with the Motion and the Order stating that custody has been changed.
  • Depending on the situation, law enforcement may help remove the child from the original guardian’s care.
  • The judge will schedule a hearing very soon during which both you and the original parent will have a chance to present your case. In this situation, legal counsel can improve your outlook.
  • Finally, the judge will make a decision on whether to go back to the custody arrangement that was in place or make a new arrangement. Depending on what decision the judge makes, the case will likely proceed on for a permanent custody trial.

How to File for Emergency Custody in North Carolina

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While the emergency custody petition process is complicated, legal counsel can help you ensure you complete every step correctly:

  1. Identify the district courthouse where you’ll file your petition for emergency custody.
  2. Obtain and complete the necessary paperwork.
  3. Print two copies of the necessary forms, one to submit to the court and another to give to your attorney for your records.
  4. Gather third-party statements to back up your claims and strengthen your case. Include third party name, residence, relationship to the child in question, and contact information.
  5. Compile any relevant evidence, such as past and current custody orders, any pending charges of domestic violence or abuse, any pending termination of parental rights, relevant medical records or CPS reports, and any relevant screenshots, text messages, or photos.
  6. Your attorney will file the complaint or motion in district court.

Keep in mind that you must provide only factual, relevant, and credible information. If you provide false information, you may be held in contempt of court or receive a fine (and if you already have shared custody of the child, you may lose it). Working with a skilled family law attorney from Myers Law Firm is one of the best ways to ensure the entire process is smooth, accurate, and in the best interest of the child.

What Happens if an Emergency Custody Order Is Denied?

There is always a possibility the judge will deny your request for emergency custody. When this happens, it’s usually because the judge feels you didn’t prove the existence of the qualifying conditions.

While a delay isn’t ideal, there are still a few things that may happen in your favor. A psychologist and Child Protective Services (CPS) may conduct further investigation into your case. You also have the option to pursue custody through the standard process. This will take a bit longer, as you’ll need to provide legal notice and service requirements so that the child’s guardian can have a voice in the courtroom.  If you decide to pursue custody through traditional routes, don’t wait to contact an attorney who can help you understand your options, complete every step in the process correctly, and advocate on your behalf. This is support is critical, especially in cases where children are potentially in danger and emotions are running high. The Myers Law Firm team has decades of experience supporting families like yours. Our team is ready to meet with you and help you take the next best step.

RELATED ARTICLE: 5 Reasons a Judge Will Deny a Custody Order

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North Carolina Judicial Branch. Child Custody. Retrieved from https://www.nccourts.gov/help-topics/family-and-children/child-custody

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What Happens if I Reject a Settlement Offer?

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So, the insurance company made you a settlement offer on your car accident case, but it’s not enough to cover your costs. What happens if you reject their offer?

We outline the answer to this question and more—keep reading to learn more.

Why Reject the Insurance Company’s First Settlement Offer

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The insurance company’s goal is to save money. One of the ways they accomplish this is by offering people who filed an insurance claim a settlement that’s far less than they deserve. If you were hurt in an accident, filed an insurance claim, and received a settlement offer that is too low to cover the cost of your medical care, medical bills, and other related expenses, your math isn’t bad; the insurance adjuster is likely trying to manipulate you into a low-ball offer.

Unfortunately, this is a fairly common occurrence. Rejecting their initial settlement offer is the first step in getting the compensation you need and deserve.

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How to Reject the Insurance Company’s First Settlement Offer (and What to Do Next)

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The first settlement offer is just that—an offer. If you’ve decided to reject the insurance company’s first offer, it doesn’t mean you are no longer eligible to claim compensation. Telling the insurance company “no” is simply part of the negotiations process. If you want to reject a settlement offer, you should submit a letter that outlines your refusal; it’s in your best interests to draft this with the help of a skilled attorney.

Negotiations can be a stressful process, so we always recommend securing legal representation and working with a personal injury attorney who can handle the negotiations process on your behalf.

Respond With a Counteroffer

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A counteroffer is your response to the insurance company and your demand for what you believe is fair compensation. It outlines the details of your claim, related costs, and the impact it had on your life. Based on that information, the counteroffer will include the settlement amount that you and your lawyer have determined is fair.

To calculate the true value of your case, your attorney will consider:

  • Medical expenses: Hospital bills, medication costs, medical bills, ambulance rides, emergency medical treatment, ongoing services, such as physical therapy, and any other related costs.
  • Lost income: Standard wages, overtime pay, bonuses, and any other income you may have missed out on.
  • Household services you need because of your injury: Cleaning services, lawn services, in-home care, and other costs.
  • Emotional injuries: Pain and suffering, anxiety developed as a result of the accident or injury, and any related emotional impact.
  • Any future expenses: This usually covers long-term treatment, renovations to your home, assistive devices, and any other ongoing costs related to your injury.

Once complete, your lawyer will deliver the letter to the insurance company. They’ll then respond to your counteroffer. In fact, it’s not unusual to have several back-and-forth communications before coming to an agreement. This agreement is called a “settlement.” 

If you can’t come to a fair settlement, your attorney may suggest you take your case to trial. Going to trial is fairly rare for most personal injury cases, but when the insurance company refuses to cooperate, it may be in your best interest.

Why Is it Important to Work With an Experienced Personal Injury Attorney?

Injured people who work with an attorney tend to receive higher settlements than those who represent themselves.

Why? The insurance company works with injured people every day. They know how to manipulate people into accepting low settlements. They may try to use high-pressure tactics, like short timelines and strong language, to push you to accept their first offer. They may push even harder if they know you have a strong case that could be taken to court.

It can be extremely difficult to stand up to these tactics, especially when you’re unfamiliar with the process and are trying to focus on your recovery. Plus, if you do accept an offer that’s too low, you won’t be able to ask for more compensation later—the case is closed. Working with an experienced personal injury attorney helps you avoid mistakes and give you the time and space to focus on your healing.

The Team at Myers Law Firm Is Ready to Help You Navigate the Insurance Claims Process

The insurance claims process is notoriously complex and stressful. Our law firm has been standing up for injured people in Charlotte, North Carolina for decades. We know how to handle the insurance company’s tricks and are ready to stand by you to get a fair settlement. To learn more about your options, the value of your case, and whether you should turn down the company’s first offer, call (888) 376-2889 or complete this brief form. We’ll meet with you in a free consultation so you can make the best choice for your future.

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Is a Driver Always at Fault When Hitting a Pedestrian in North Carolina?

When a car hits a pedestrian, the laws of physics apply harshly to the victim. A human being is simply no match for a vehicle, and the pedestrian incurs the worst injuries. This can be a lifechanging experience, with long-term health consequences, lost wages, and other damages.

If you were the victim of such an accident, you may wonder if you can pursue the driver or their insurance for financial compensation. You may want to know how pedestrians get compensated for accident injuries. You may ask yourself whether a driver is always at fault when hitting a pedestrian in North Carolina.

These questions may not be easily answered, because the answers depend on the specific circumstances of the accident and the “contributory negligence” law in our state. You may be entitled to compensation, but you will need to prove that the car driver was negligent.

The Driver Might Not Be Held Responsible

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All drivers have a responsibility to drive safely when they get behind the wheel. This is called “duty of care,” and it means they need to exhibit the same caution that a normal person would in the same circumstances. If a driver runs a red light, speeds, or is texting while driving, they violate their duty of care.

When a careful person drives through a bustling city like Charlotte, with many pedestrians on the sidewalks, they vigilantly watch for persons entering the roadway. They slow down if they see children near the road, and make sure to yield at crosswalks. These are examples of someone following the duty of care.

To hold the driver responsible for hitting a pedestrian, you must be able to show that they violated their duty of care.

If the driver can prove they were being reasonably careful, then there may be reason to believe the pedestrian is somewhat at fault for the accident. And if it can be shown that the pedestrian was “contributorily negligent,” then they may not be entitled to any compensation. This is why it is very important to hire an experienced lawyer after you’ve been injured as a pedestrian.

RELATED: Learn About Our Pedestrian Accident Attorneys

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What Does “Pure Contributory Negligence” Mean?

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Legally speaking, pure contributory negligence means that you are not allowed to be compensated for your damages if the insurance company can prove you were even slightly at fault. This law can be very unfair in auto-pedestrian accidents. If the driver was 99% at fault and the pedestrian was only 1% at fault, the pedestrian cannot recover anything due to contributory negligence. There is a doctrine called Last Clear Chance that could show that the driver had the “last clear chance” to avoid hitting the pedestrian, but this can sometimes be difficult to prove.

Because of contributory negligence, it is in your best interest to stay highly visible to vehicles while walking and not make unpredictable moves when crossing the road.

RELATED: These Tips Can Reduce Pedestrian Accidents

A Pedestrian’s Negligence May Contribute to an Accident

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So, what might be considered as contributory negligence for a pedestrian? This can vary, and it is ultimately up to the defense or insurance company to prove that your actions qualify as such. However, some acts that could potentially be considered negligent include:

  • Darting out in the roadway unexpectedly.
  • Walking along a road where people rarely see pedestrians, like the side of the freeway.
  • Walking on the side of the road at night while wearing dark-colored clothing, making it hard to see that there’s a pedestrian present.
  • Looking down at your cellphone as you cross a street.
  • Crossing the street in an unexpected place, such as jaywalking rather than using a crosswalk.

As a pedestrian, the best way to avoid an accident is to behave predictably when vehicles are present. When people get hit by cars, regardless of who is at fault, the injuries are often severe. This can translate to significant costs, like medical bills and lost wages. Insurance companies will do everything they can to avoid paying fair compensation, even when their insured is clearly at fault.

If it can be proved in court that the pedestrian holds some of the responsibility for the accident, they will have to look to their own health insurance for help with medical bills. And there will be no compensation for lost wages or pain and suffering.

RELATED: How Do Pedestrians Get Compensated for Accident Injuries?

Myers Law Firm Can Help Pedestrians Seeking Compensation

If you are a pedestrian who has been hit by a car, the driver’s insurance company will probably do everything they can to keep you from receiving fair compensation. In order to avoid paying damages, they will try to prove you were even 1% responsible for the accident.

That is why it is so important to have the right lawyer on your side. An experienced personal injury lawyer knows all the ins and outs of the legal system and fights for the compensation you deserve.

At Myers Law Firm, we know how difficult it is to recover from an accident. That’s why we offer a free consultation to discuss your personal injury case and assess your liability claim. Call our offices today at 888-376-2889 or fill out this contact form to learn about your legal options for pursuing damages.


NCDOT, Division of Bicycle and Pedestrian Transportation. (2009, November 13). Pedestrian Laws of North Carolina. Raleigh, NC: North Carolina General Assembly. Retrieved from https://transportation.ncsu.edu/wp-content/uploads/2019/03/wt-ped-laws.pdf

Vehicle control signs and signals. NCDOT. § 20-158. (2020). https://www.ncleg.net/EnactedLegislation/Statutes/HTML/ByChapter/Chapter_20.html


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How Long Do You Have to Pay Alimony in North Carolina?

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When a marriage ends, spouses might leave with different financial situations. While both might support the household, one spouse might have contributed more money, while the other added value in different ways. The latter might find it tough to meet their monthly expenses after divorce, and spousal support could help them make up the difference.

Spousal support payments, or alimony payments, flow from the supporting spouse to the spouse who requires assistance, known as the dependent spouse. But the length of payments can vary widely from one case to the next, and there’s no absolute formula in North Carolina to know what to expect. This uncertainty is why working with an experienced family law attorney is so important.

When Is Alimony Awarded?

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To get an idea of how long payments could last, you’ll have to understand why a judge orders alimony. For support to be an option, the dependent spouse must meet three conditions:

  • There was no illicit sexual behavior by the dependent spouse
  • They need help meeting their own needs and maintaining the standard of living that existed during the marriage
  • Their supporting spouse has the ability to pay support

If all three conditions are met, a judge can approve support, then determine the amount the supporting spouse will pay the other. Age and health, the ability to earn money, and the length of the marriage are some of the factors that play into the amount of the payments.

How Does Marital Misconduct Affect Alimony?

Misconduct during marriage can also have a large impact on the decision. North Carolina law requires alimony from a supporting spouse guilty of infidelity, known as illicit sexual behavior, and bars a cheating dependent spouse from receiving alimony. Behavior other than unfaithfulness, like abuse, abandonment, or cruelty, can affect the alimony decision, but are not an absolute bar.

RELATED: Who Gets Alimony in North Carolina and Why?

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How Long Can Alimony Obligations Last?

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From temporary help to adjust to a new start, or permanent alimony to foster the former quality of life, how long a supporting spouse pays alimony depends on the individual case. Additionally, the length of the marriage plays a large role in how long the alimony payments last, but a judge can weigh other factors. These factors include: 

Postseparation Support

Postseparation support is like temporary alimony. The postseparation support decision is different from alimony and is designed to take place shortly after the parties separate. This decision is different from alimony because it is usually based solely on economic factors and is designed to be a band-aid until a final decision is made on alimony. 

Ongoing Orders With Permanent Alimony

A judge might decide not to set an end date to alimony, opting for permanent alimony. Payments can go on indefinitely after a long marriage with circumstances that leave a spouse without the ability to maintain their standard of living. Circumstances such as when a dependent spouse traded a chance at building a career in exchange for maintaining the household and bringing up the kids can leave an ongoing need to receive alimony. Permanent alimony can be terminated later down the road if circumstances change.

Monthly Alimony for a Set Period

The most common form of alimony is monthly payments at a set amount for a set period of time. Evaluating alimony claims can be difficult because North Carolina does not have any laws, rules, or decisions that set the length of time for alimony. It is up to the judge’s discretion, based upon the circumstances of the case.

Fixed Payments With Lump-Sum Alimony

When the court determines a lump sum alimony award is in order, the supporting spouse will have to pay a fixed amount to the dependent spouse. This payment can happen once or over time until the amount is met, with money or transferring property acceptable means to pay alimony in this circumstance. A judge can order this form of payment if they foresee potential issues with ongoing, permanent alimony payments. 

Does That Mean Alimony Can Never Change or End Otherwise?

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Ongoing and permanent alimony orders still aren’t immune to alteration. When the situation changes, a judge could change terms or terminate payments.

Changes That Can Lead to Modifying Alimony

When alimony payments are set on a timeframe, changes could occur when factors undergo a big shift. If the supporting spouse loses their ability to pay alimony, or the dependent spouse becomes self-sufficient, alimony payments could change. After considering new information, the courts will make the final decision, issuing a court order with updated terms.

Situations That Warrant Terminating Alimony

Alimony, whether with a set end date or without, can meet the requirements for early termination. This mean there are certain cases where the states does away with the requirement to pay alimony:

  • One of the spouses passes away
  • The divorced spouses resume their marriage
  • The dependent spouse remarries or romantically cohabits with another adult

Myers Law Firm Can Help Understand Alimony in Your Case

Alimony decisions in divorce aren’t as simple as crunching numbers. It’s hard to know on your own how long alimony payments will last. That’s why it’s so important to find experienced legal help. 

Myers Law Firm has over 60 years of combined experience helping both supporting and dependent spouses in alimony cases. We can help you build a case for payments and schedules that amount to a fair level of financial assistance. Call (888) 376-2889 or complete this brief form to learn your legal options during this difficult time. 


N.C. Gen. Stat. § 50-16.1A (1995). 

N.C. Gen. Stat. § 50-16.2A (1995). 

North Carolina Equal Access to Justice Commission. (2019, June). North Carolina Divorce Packet. https://www.nccourts.gov/assets/inline-files/NC-Divorce-Packet-Aug-2019.pdf

North Carolina Judicial Branch. Separation and Divorce. https://www.nccourts.gov/help-topics/divorce/separation-and-divorce#alimony-7481

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What You Need to Know About Grandparent Custody

Grandparents Gaining Custody
  • North Carolina courts try to keep children with their parents whenever possible. 
  • However, grandparents may gain custody if the parents aren’t willing or able to care for the child. 
  • Potential guardians should hire an experienced, empathetic family law attorney for guidance through the custody process. 

When a child needs a safe and nurturing place to live, deciding where that place is can be a challenging, emotional process. If the parent or parents aren’t the best people to care for the child, another person might step up and offer to take the child. Usually, this person is a grandparent, but they aren’t the only ones who can seek custody. An applicant could also be extended family members like an aunt, uncle, an older sibling, or another person who has a substantial relationship with the child. 

However, the process of gaining grandparent custody is different than for a parent, and it’s often more complicated and challenging. Keep reading to learn more. 

Grandparents Can Obtain Custody, but They Must Take Extra Steps

Grandparents Gaining Custody

The U.S. Supreme Court has determined that the child’s parents have a constitutionally protected right to the control of their children. North Carolina courts follow the Supreme Court’s broad direction, so judges try to keep parents and children together. However, there are three possible situations where a nonparent, third-party guardian (like a grandparent or stepparent) can be awarded custody because the parents have lost their protected status. Those situations are: 

  • The biological parents have taken actions which are inconsistent with their protected status of a parent (for example, leaving the child with a third party for an extended period of time) 
  • The biological parents can’t care for the child due to things like mental illness 
  • A court finds the biological parents unfit to have custody 

Getting child custody as a nonparent can be extremely challenging. This notion is especially true if a biological parent is a viable option and the parents’ rights are intact. Courts anticipate the child having the strongest bond with their biological parents. That means that judges will not separate children from their immediate family unless there are very good reasons to do so. 

If you or someone you love wants custody of a child in North Carolina, you must prove in court that the biological parent is incapable of caring for the child or that the child’s parents have acted inconsistently with their protected status as a parent. In either situation, you’ll need an experienced family law attorney to help you build your case and fight for custody. 

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What Will the Court Consider When Evaluating My Custody Claim?

Grandparents Gaining Custody

North Carolina courts’ primary goal in custody cases is to protect the well-being of the child or children. When a judge evaluates a custody claim, the deciding factors include: 

  • The parent’s living situation 
  • The parent’s ability to take care of the child 
  • The state of the parent’s relationship with the child 
  • The child’s wishes, depending on their age 

How Are Cases of Grandparents Seeking Custody Different Than Cases Between Parents?

In a custody case between the child’s parents only, the court decides strictly on the child’s best interests. But when a grandparent or any other nonparent attempts to seek custody, that person must first prove that the parents have acted inconsistently with their protected status as parents or that the parents are unfit. In these cases, the court must reach a decision based on “clear and convincing evidence.” It’s a higher standard of proof than the normal standard in custody cases that involve parents only. 

The result is that grandparents and other nonparents often face an uphill custody battle. Because of the challenges involved, you should work with an experienced and dedicated family law attorney if you’re a grandparent and want to petition for custody. 

What Does This Mean for Grandparents Seeking Visitation Rights?

North Carolina courts presume that a fit parent acts in the best interest of the child. When it comes to grandparent visitation, like custody, the parent has the first say in who has access to children. This presumption remains unless they’ve waived their parental rights, as in the situations above. If the custody challenge is ongoing, the court can give grandparent visitation rights if three standards are met: 

  • The court decides that visitation is in the child’s best interest 
  • The grandparent has to show that the parent’s decision against visitation is against the child’ best interest 
  • Visitation doesn’t get in the way of the parent’s relationships with their child 

RELATED: 5 Child Custody Myths, Debunked 

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Alexander v. Alexander, 2021-NCCOA-61 

Howell, C. (2011, January). Third Party Custody and Visitation Actions: 2010 Update to the State of the Law in North Carolina. UNC School of Government Family Law Bulletin. https://www.sog.unc.edu/sites/www.sog.unc.edu/files/reports/flb25.pdf 

N.C. Gen. Stat. § 50-13.1 

N.C. Gen. Stat. § 50-13.2 

N.C. Gen. Stat. § 50-13.5 

N.C. Gen. Stat. § 50-13.1 

Troxel v. Granville, 530 U.S. 57 (2000) 

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What’s the Process Behind Serving Divorce Papers?

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Deciding on divorce is a hard road for many, but it’s only the start of the process. It’s important to understand what divorce papers are and the many requirements surrounding them to successfully begin divorce proceedings.

Hitting deadlines, meeting requirements, and obeying the law can be difficult, especially in emotionally trying times, so it can be helpful to get legal advice from a divorce attorney before serving divorce papers.

What Has to Happen Before a Spouse Can Serve Papers?

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Any legally married spouse can begin the divorce process in North Carolina. The state they were married in doesn’t matter, but there are two requirements they’ll have to meet:

  • One spouse must be a legal resident that’s lived in the state for at least six months.
  • The spouses must have lived apart for one year.

There’s no paperwork to begin the separation, but the spouses must live separate and apart for an uninterrupted one-year period, with one spouse intending to end the marriage in that time. If you and your spouse are eligible, the next stage is completing the required court forms and filing them with the court clerk’s office.

RELATED: 6 Things You Need to Know About Divorce in North Carolina

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What Service Forms Make Up Divorce Papers?

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The spouse who files the initial divorce papers (the plaintiff) will have to collect and complete several important court papers and file them with the Clerk of Court before they’re ready to go to the other spouse (the defendant).

The complaint for absolute divorce

This is the request for the judge to grant an absolute divorce, which is the complete dissolution of marriage between spouses. The divorce complaint is paperwork that includes the allegations necessary to show the court that the plaintiff is entitled to the divorce, such as:

  • An allegation that one of the parties has resided in North Carolina for six months
  • The date of marriage
  • The date of separation
  • A statement that the spouses have lived separate and apart for over a year
  • Information about any children of the parties under 18

A notary will need to be present when you sign off on the complaint.

The domestic civil action cover sheet

Next, this document helps the court direct the case properly. It’s required for the court clerk to begin a civil proceeding—in this case, the divorce. This form contains administrative information for the Clerk’s office. A notary does not need to witness this signature.

The civil summons

The summons is the form that tells the defendant that their spouse has filed a lawsuit against them and that they have 30 days to respond. It will include the plaintiff’s name as well as the defendant’s name and address. This information will help down the line in case a sheriff has been tasked with delivering the summons.

Servicemembers Civil Relief Affidavit

This is another form that the plaintiff signs in front of a notary. This document provides information stating that the defendant is not a member of the military. This is required because federal law does not allow proceedings against deployed military members.

Additional court documents could be necessary if the petitioner can’t afford the fees or the defendant is a member of the military. Once the court has these papers, the court clerk will file the documents and issue a summons to accompany a copy of the complaint. These are the divorce papers that are served to the defendant.

How Does a Spouse Serve Divorce Papers?

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The first thing to remember is the petitioner can’t personally serve the papers themselves. They must go through an acceptable method of delivery and receive proof of service for the court to consider it formal notice:

  • Sheriff: For a fee, the sheriff can deliver the papers to the address listed on the summons or at the defendant’s place of employment. Upon delivery, the sheriff will make a note on the summons and return it to the clerk.
  • Professional process server: A process server’s job is to deliver notice of legal action. While a sheriff can only serve papers in the county of their appointment, a petitioner can use a process server for personal service across North Carolina and out of state.
  • Voluntary acceptance: If the defendant isn’t going to contest the action, they can accept service. In this case, the divorce papers will also include an acceptance of service form that they can sign in front of a notary. The document then has to be returned to the clerk of the court for filing.
  • Certified mail: The petitioner can also choose to send the spouse notice by certified mail, as long as there’s a return receipt requested for proof of service. The authorized delivery service will have the defendant sign for the documents, confirming delivery. The proof of delivery will have to make its way back to the courts by way of the petitioner.
  • Publication: When the petitioner has exhausted all reasonable methods, service by publication is the remaining option. The spouse will have to print a notice once a week for three straight weeks in a newspaper that’s been in circulation for at least six months and is published continually at least every week. After the three scheduled printings, the newspaper will provide an Affidavit of Publication that goes to the clerk’s office.

What Happens After There’s Proof of Service?

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Once the petitioner has successfully served the divorce papers, the defendant has 30 days from when they were served to answer, submit counterclaims, or ask for an extension. Once the defendant answers or the 30 days are up, the plaintiff can file a Motion for Summary Judgment. A hearing will be scheduled and the Judgment of Divorce signed by the judge if all the required parameters of a divorce are met. The Judgment of Divorce is the final step.

What Is the Effect of The Divorce?

The Judgment of Divorce terminates the marital relationship and all the legal rights as a spouse. It is very important to note that if a Judgment of Divorce is granted and there are not claims for equitable distribution or alimony pending at the time of the Judgment, those rights are lost forever. This means that a person who wants to seek a property division or needs alimony must file the claim before the divorce is final. If the parties have signed a Separation Agreement or entered into a Consent Order on either of these issues, that agreement should not be affected. The Judgment of Divorce does not affect child custody or child support.

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We understand that divorce isn’t easy, and it can be made even harder when there’s a flurry of rules to follow before the process can even begin. We’re here to help those in need understand and navigate the process, whether they’re drafting divorce papers or on the receiving end.

Myers Law Firm has more than 60 years of combined experience working with clients to manage the divorce process from the very beginning. If you need help with divorce papers or any other aspect of family law matters, call us at (888) 376-2889 or fill out our online form today.

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How Do You Divide a 401(k) in a Divorce?

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Retirement accounts are there to provide for you after your ties to work and your career have ended or are drastically altered. They give you the freedom to look beyond the paycheck and embrace life outside of work.

While divorce can lead to a happier time in your life as well, it can also have an impact on the nest egg you’ve been nurturing for so long. Marriages can mean shared assets, even when they’re tied more closely to one spouse. When one partner spends their life in a career that provides healthy retirement benefits, both partners can still have plans for it.

This is why legal advice can prove vital. It’s often important to consult a divorce lawyer experienced in asset division in such an impactful process as dividing a 401(k) in divorce.

How Does State Law See Marital Assets?

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North Carolina uses equitable distribution to divide property, which means the retirement assets aren’t split down the middle. Instead, the court will look for a fair divide between you and your spouse, depending on some key factors:

  • The length of the marriage
  • Contributions to one another and the household
  • Individual incomes and property
  • Child custody and ongoing support

North Carolina sees assets gathered during marriage as marital assets, and those outside marriage as separate property, though there can be exceptions to this broad statement.

RELATED: Equitable Distribution – What Does “Marital Property” Mean in Property Division Cases?

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How Do You Split Retirement Assets Like a 401(k)?

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Like most other assets, retirement accounts like a 401(k) or IRA can enter into the equation of equitable distribution. The role they play, however, depends on when they were established and how they behaved over time:

  • Before: A 401(k) established before marriage could be a separate asset if neither spouse benefited from it during the marriage. If the asset was rolled over to a current employer without any contributions, matches, or deferred compensation during the marriage, then it could be separate.
  • During: Funds added to the retirement account during the marriage are likely marital assets, though the line can depend on the payments. The needle can shift if the 401(k) started before the marriage but the account matured, or money was paid in or out before the separation.
  • After: A 401(k) that continues to grow during your separation can still count toward a divisible asset. The change in value up to the time of your divorce could add to the value of your property.

It’s possible that a single account falls across the before, during, and after periods, making 401(k) division a complicated process that depends heavily on values across the timeline.

What Is a Qualified Domestic Relations Order?

A qualified domestic relations order (QDRO) is a divorce agreement that outlines how a spouse will receive a portion of the retirement benefits. The spouse looking for a separate say in the retirement savings will usually be responsible for drafting it, and the other spouse will sign off. The drafting party generally brings that completed agreement to the plan administrator, often the employer in charge of the retirement account.

Benefit payments depend on the QDRO

 There are several options for payouts, each with different terms that could work better in certain situations:

  • The QDRO can establish an independent 401(k) or roll the assets into another plan
  • There could be a lump sum payment at the time of the order
  • The money can stay in the original plan, with the secondary spouse able to control their share

Dividing Retirement Funds Can Require Extra Considerations

Depending on how a spouse accesses their share of the funds through the QDRO, there can be significant consequences to consider. A lump sum will likely mean the receiving spouse will owe income tax, while keeping the money in a plan could allow tax deferment until payouts begin.

While these actions usually behave like normal with tax implications, the money that comes from a QDRO does have an important distinction. There won’t likely be an early withdrawal penalty, no matter the spouse’s age, which breaks from the standard practice for pulling assets from a retirement account.

Myers Law Firm Can Help You Work Through Dividing Retirement Accounts

Dividing assets can be a complicated matter in divorce, a shared 401(k) account included. Accurately appraising accounts, determining a fair share, and drafting a QDRO could benefit from experienced legal advice.

Myers Law Firm has more than 60 years of combined experience helping clients in North Carolina through the divorce process. Call (888) 376-2289 or fill out this simple form to schedule a free consultation and begin working toward a solution today.


Employee Benefits Security Administration. FAQs about Qualified Domestic Relations Orders. U.S. Department of Labor. https://www.dol.gov/sites/dolgov/files/EBSA/about-ebsa/our-activities/resource-center/faqs/qdro-overview.pdf

Howell, C. (2017, September 8). Equitable Distribution: The Marital Property Presumption. University of North Carolina School of Government. Retrieved from https://civil.sog.unc.edu/equitable-distribution-the-marital-property-presumption/

N.C. Gen. Stat. § 50-20 (2013)

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Can You Get Divorced and Still Own A House Together?

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Splitting property in a divorce gets more complicated the larger the assets get. And few couples own anything larger than their house.

There are a several ways to deal with the family home when you and your partner are going your separate ways, but finding the best way to handle property division in divorce could depend on finding experienced legal help.

How Do You Separate Property in a Divorce?

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You could try to determine the divide on your own, but agreements on big-ticket assets can be difficult. In these cases, you can ask the court for help when dividing the assets you acquired during your marriage.

Those assets include marital property, or property and debts you claimed after your marriage and before your separation. Separate assets, those that a spouse owned before the marriage, might not get split.

The Family House Can Fit Into Different Categories

If the family home purchase was before marriage, or the property was inherited or came as a gift, it could be separate property.

The house can become marital property if you refinanced or took out a home equity loan and changed the deed to include both of your names. Individual property can also become comingled when one spouse contributes finances or effort into a house the other spouse owns.

If the property’s value has increased during your marriage, that difference could also be divided between you. While the judge will likely consider the home property of one spouse or the other, the additional value could be divisible.

Once you know where the house stands, it’s time to consider how equitable distribution will impact the process. Property in North Carolina isn’t split down the middle, but rather the judge will look at what can be a fair division.

RELATED: Equitable Distribution – What Does “Marital Property” Mean in Property Division Cases?

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How Can You Divide the Real Estate?

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When it comes time to define terms for a settlement agreement, there are a few potential avenues toward an equitable division. While you can’t outright split a house in two, there are ways you can divide the worth. One spouse might have to buy out the other, or you can sell the property, with each getting a share of the resulting amount.

A third option is co-owning the home. Whether you want to keep the house for the kids or there’s currently a weak real estate market, there could be tempting reasons for the house to stay in the family.

Shared Living Space With the Other Spouse

You could continue to share the home over time, but that isn’t usually a desirable option for the recently divorced. This is also hard to come by when North Carolina requires you to be living in a different home for one year to be legally separated, which is a requirement for an absolute divorce.

Moving back in after that time might be a necessity, though isn’t often the first choice for most divorced couples. There are many other situations, however, where continued co-ownership of a home might be the most desirable option.

Spreading Payments Over Time

When one spouse can’t afford to buy out the other, and neither of you wants to sell, co-ownership can take another form. You could find an arrangement that works for meeting the mortgage while retaining a shared interest in the home.

Renting Out a Joint Property

The home might continue to make sense as a business venture. When a home has other tenets and becomes a source of income, that monthly rent and the mortgage and upkeep expenses could be split between parties.

Custody and the Family Home

Custody can take on a new look. Although uncommon, a trend has emerged in recent years called nesting. When you share time as the custodial parent, the children’s lives can be disrupted by moving between homes. Nesting uses the family home as the common ground for the kids, and it’s the parents who move in and out as their custody agreement dictates.

Alternatively, the parent with custody can remain living the home, while the other parent contributes to the mortgage or upkeep as part of division or custody.

What Problems Come With Joint Ownership?

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If you agree to move past selling and splitting, there are still plenty of things to consider. You’ll likely need to spell a lot out in your terms in case certain situations arise:

  • Property disagreements: It could be best to set up a plan for when there’s friction. Plans for the house, like splitting mortgage interest deduction, paying for upgrades, and even selling could benefit from preestablished mediation.
  • Tax implications: While you’ll still have to pay property taxes, it’s important to remember sales tax. You get a window where you may not have to face taxes for a sale after divorce, but that option likely isn’t in place forever.
  • Right of survivorship: If one spouse passes, what happens to their share of the property depends on how you define your ownership.
  • Bankruptcy: When one of you files for bankruptcy, it can have a drastic effect on possessions. While the sale of the house isn’t a guarantee, you may need to consider how it will affect your shared home.

Myers Law Firm Can Help With Approaching Marital Property Division

While keeping the family home isn’t for everyone, even those that see it as a viable way forward could be in for complicated decision-making. Divorce and property division can be hard enough, but negotiating terms for co-ownership can be an especially difficult task.

With more than 60 years of combined experience, Myers Law Firm can aid clients in assessing, splitting, and sharing large assets they acquired during their marriage.

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N.C. Gen. Stat. § 50-6

N.C. Gen. Stat. § 50-20

N.C. Gen. Stat. § 50-21

R., Branan. Land Title: Understanding Rights in Real and Personal Property. NC State Extension. Retrieved from URL https://farmlaw.ces.ncsu.edu/land-use-and-zoning/land-ownership-and-liability/land-title-understanding-rights-in-real-and-personal-property/

Separation and Divorce. North Carolina Judicial Branch. Retrieved from https://www.nccourts.gov/help-topics/divorce/separation-and-divorce

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What Are Child Support Laws When Parents Live in Different States?

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Child support can be crucial to a child’s development, and state lines shouldn’t stand in the way. The short answer to what happens to child support over state lines is nothing, but it’s not always that simple. Seemingly small child support matters can grow in complexity when multiple states and their agencies come into play.

If you need to navigate this kind of complex legal matter that can change greatly from your state to the next, it can be a good idea to seek out experienced legal help before proceeding.

How Does Collecting Child Support Change When One Parent Moves to Another State?

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An existing child support order will stay in place when one parent moves unless there’s a modification to the support order. That means child support payments must continue regardless of where the parent lives. This is because the Uniform Interstate Family Support Act (UIFSA) enables courts to make child support orders that stay in place over state lines.

RELATED: Can I Take My Ex to Court for Custody Issues in North Carolina if They Live in a Different State?

And to help support parents that collect child support, every state has a child support agency known as Child Support Services (CSS) or Child Support Enforcement (CSE). They specialize in a variety of basic support needs:

  • Locating non-custodial parents
  • Collecting due support
  • Enforcing support orders

The office and tools available can change depending on where the parents live and which state holds the original or overriding order. When child custody isn’t forthcoming, and it can rely on the home state to know how one can enforce child support orders, like:

  • Direct income withholding
  • Tax intercepts
  • License revocation

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Who Has Jurisdiction Over Your Case?

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While support orders continue to exist outside state boundaries, the creation, modification, and enforcement can look different from state to state. Even if the child is from North Carolina or recently moved here doesn’t mean a North Carolina court will rule on the case. The Uniform Interstate Family Support Act (UIFSA) clarifies when a state has jurisdiction over a child support case.

Defining States Is Crucial in Your Child Support Order

If you and the other parent both begin court actions in different states, the state with jurisdiction will generally overrule the decision of the other state. If you or the other parent moves states, then it’s important to know who will enforce support orders.

Pursuant to UIFSA, a state may initiate a child support order when the parents are in different states only if the state has jurisdiction over the person who is responsible for paying support. If the payor lives in the state, the state has jurisdiction. If the payor does not live in the state, there are only certain grounds when the state can exercise jurisdiction over the person. These grounds can be viewed here: https://www.ncleg.gov/EnactedLegislation/Statutes/PDF/BySection/Chapter_52C/GS_52C-2-201.pdf. Once a state obtains jurisdiction over the payor, that state continues to have “exclusive, continuing jurisdiction” to modify or enforce the order. The “exclusive, continuing jurisdiction” can be lost in certain instances when another state can then take over and modify or enforce the order.

Myers Law Firm Can Help With Child Support Orders Across Multiple States

Managing child support isn’t easy, and things can get even more difficult when crossing state lines. When you’re facing complications with tough family legal matters, hiring a family law attorney can be an important first step.

Myers Law Firm has over 60 years of combined experience helping clients in North Carolina navigate family law. To learn more about how we can help you manage your child support issues, call us at (888) 376-2889 or fill out  this brief online form to schedule your free online consultation.


Child Support. North Carolina Judicial Branch. Retrieved from https://www.nccourts.gov/help-topics/family-and-children/child-support

N.C. Gen. Stat. § 50-13.4 (2020)

Uniform Law Commission. (2008). Interstate Family Support Act. https://www.uniformlaws.org/committees/community-home?CommunityKey=71d40358-8ec0-49ed-a516-93fc025801fb

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